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Accepting to Improve your Personal Life
Do you have the ability to accept the things
you can change and the things you cannot change? Do you have
the ability to accept that other people are opt to change them,
rather than you changing them? Do you accept that you are who
you are, regardless of what others think? Can you accept the
many changes that take place in your life?
If you answered yes to one or all of these
questions then you are off to the start of improving your
personal life. If you are willing to accept, you have the
ability to laugh, even when something is not funny. For
instance, if someone pushed you, you could stand back and
laugh. The push is only a threat to your emotion, which you
will see, accept and find a way to gain control of the
situation.
When you can accept things in life, including
you and others you find a way to take control. When you are in
control, it helps you to see how you can improve your personal
life. When you learn to accept you will learn to discover
you.
Individuality is personal, which philosophers
over generalize this subject. Many people in the world believe
that when we act the same way at all times, we have established
our identity. Politically incorrect! We have emotions,
thoughts, behaviors, actions, and have been plagued by a world
of influences both good and bad. Each day we will feel
something new, which causes our personality to reflect on these
changes. Therefore, when you see someone laughing one minute
and crying the next, you are seeing a shift in emotions, which
is a normal pattern of identity for this person. Unless the
persons eyes change, behaviors change dramatically, friends
change regularly, etc, and you are seeing common behaviors.
We live in a world that desensitizes us. We are
surrounding by billions of influences on television, in the
media, on radio, in house-holds, government, schools and so
forth. Each to their own, but everyone is judging someone at
some time, which is something we have to accept. We cannot
change these peoples behaviors and way of thinking, but we can
change ours. This is a part of learning and accepting. The best
way around the world is become your own influence and allow
other influences to make someone else’s life miserable. Only
rely on sources that prove truthful with their actions,
behaviors and words. Positive reflections are the key to living
happier.
Once you learn to accept you will be eager to
laugh. For instance, if someone makes you mad you will see the
humor in his or her actions. You may see the humor in your
actions if you make a mistake and feed into their
stupidity.
Once you start to see the humor in life, you
will feel better inside. We are involved in a unruly world
filled with greedy people, envious souls, lusty tigers, and so
on. We have to learn how to work around these people, accept us
and move on. Once you learn to change to better you, other
people may follow. Good conduct has proven far more effective
than words to encourage others to change.
As you grow you will feel a new hunger, and
that hunger will guide you to discover new ways to better you.
In time as you start to feel better, you will see a need to
exercise, eat right, and hang out with positive influences and
so on. Once you feel this hunger, you will feel inspired to
labor to achieve your goals.
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